What We Didn’t Say

I know there are prompts today, but I wanted to talk about the very busy day I’ve had on the phone today.

It all started this morning with a long-awaited Facetime call between Stephanie and me. We talked for an hour as I showed her around and covered lots of ground. Yet as I hung up I realized there was so much more I wanted to tell her, and I bet the feeling was mutual.

I wanted to tell her about the cards I got for Rayven and the significance of them. Where we will go to get a little something to send along with those cards. I’d have told her how hard playing Mahjong is and how I’ve been practicing online to get better. Sometimes we get lost or excited and talk over each other, and in my rush to tell her everything, forgetting how hard it is for her to hear, I wonder what she might have missed, or did I talk so much that she didn’t get to tell me everything.

Then Julie called to tell me she was home and we also had a ton to talk about. She has been gone a month and all that entailed, and then she experienced a nightmare of a homecoming. They had a hard time getting out one of their doors, because the kids had locked the top lock when they left. Her yard was not mowed as promised and Wes had to do that straight away. She went to get her dog and accidentally hit the curb of the median causing a flat tire, and then got stopped for speeding! Poor thing. She managed to not get a ticket but only because the officer heard her story and took pity on her.

I had all kinds the f things to tell her too, so we were on the phone about 45 min. I heard the status of her son’s recovery after his motorcycle accident that interrupted their first outing as retirees. I learned they had a great time despite all that and went a ton of places before heading back home.

Last night, I FaceTimed with my youngest son, Christopher and “took his temperature” and found he sounds healthy enough, though still stressed out. He’s trying to take care of a lot of moving parts right now, but as Dave says, he’s working through his process. I didn’t time the call but it wasn’t near long enough. We hung up and immediately, I was thinking of all I forgot to ask or tell him. I do that often with him though, because we could literally talk for hours if we had the time.

Finally, as I hung up with Julie, I saw that Josh (the middle boy) had called so I called him back. Our conversations are usually about funny, sometimes inane stuff, with a little of whats going on stuck in there somewhere. They are doing good. Amazon is treating them well, but they still need better lodging and a vehicle, both of which they are working on, same as Chris.

He called to ask if his Dad had a favorite snack he took on the boat (when he had one) and I said sunflower seeds. Well, working at Amazon, they stock some weird stuff as you probably can imagine. They sell everything you know. 😂 So what struck him funny, was that someone would need a plastic, waterproof sub sandwich holder. He’s like, “Who plans to take a sub sandwich out on the boat with them? Lol!” That was clean and funny, but what he told me next was not. They have to stock sex toys. And I don’t mean the plain Jane kind either. The kind that speak to the depravity of our society, and he is no angel but this shocked him. I will let you use your own imagination but I had never even heard of some of this sick stuff. When I said they sell everything, I wasn’t kidding. I usually hang up from talking to him with such a mixed bag of feelings. Mainly because he rarely talks about what you’d call everyday stuff. So I’m left thinking “how is he really, how close are they to achieving their goals, are they going nuts in a hotel with pets, and why can’t he ever talk about anything real?

Thats unfair, I guess he does sort of touch on reality when he talks about things like what they cooked in their air-fryer, or if they got a day off and went to do something special, or what the weather is doing. Everything else is a free-for-all, baby.

So now that I’ve talked my ear off and yours, I’m going to go relax with some Mahjong practice and get some much-needed water!

Sorry for the dirty windshield, but this is a different mountain range as seen on our way to Cortez today. The largest cliff dwellings in the nation are somewhere among those in the Mesa Verde National Park.
We are very close to the Four Corners area, joining Colorado, Utah, New Mexico, and Arizona. It’s about an hour or so from where we are.

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  1. Great post!

    I have a picture of myself standing in for states at once. Fun!

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    1. We didn’t go all the way to that exact point, but maybe we’ll venture that way again when we are in Dolores. That would have been cool! You start seeing signs about an hour before you get there and we didn’t have time to that far that day.

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  2. Wow! So much happening. And I did not know that about Amazon. So creepy. I hope your sons fare well, and sending you hugs.🌺🩷

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    1. Thanks, Kimber! There’s a hug back for you! 🤗💐

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  3. I felt the same way as you. We got off the face time only to realize so many things that were left unsaid on my part! So I do not think that it just happens to you. Sounds like you had a busy time on the phone yesterday. We will do it again someday!
    When my wheelchair came looked a whole lot better than what I was thinking. We transferred onto the potty and off, it was good, PTL! He did need to take the chair back to the shop to widen the hip area as it was like to snug. It did not come with any seatbelts as I do not think it will be necessary because my back, and the seat cushion is custom molded! I feel very secure. However, Christina and dad think I need something in case I sneeze or cough. I think I will get something but we will maybe try it without it at 1st. In a fashion sense I do not want a chest belt! The lapbelt I can deal with as I have had to deal with that for a long time. So I should be getting the chair back sometime after Wednesday next week. Thanks for the prayers!
    And I will be praying for the both of your kids and for Julie! And for you and Dave!

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    1. Thanks, Steph and I’m so happy your chair is good! Next week to wait is not so bad, but I know you’ve been waiting a long while. Just a bit longer! It sounds ideal!
      You have your seat cushion already, right? Is that what you will use to sit on in case you cough or sneeze? I’m sure you’ll work something out.
      I’m about to write a post, so I’ll holler at ya later!

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