A Positive Start

Well, it’s been a busy week already and I’m off to a positive start. Got to the VA, yesterday I got my MRI scheduled for the 14th of this month, and last night we met my sister and her husband while noshing on some ok Mexican food.

Aren’t they a cute couple! Barb and Frank. My sister from another mister. 😉

I’m sure we will be seeing a lot of each other while here, as much as their time as they can spare. They are both still working, for the benefits as well as extra income. They have kids they want us to meet and we got along like old best friends, even though we’ve never really met.

Frank was warm and funny and Barb was as curious as me about the mysterious way our mother was. I was shocked to learn that the story was a bit different than what I’d been told, it was, in fact, a blatant lie my mother told me. Maybe she was ashamed of her actions, but she told me when she was pregnant with Barb, they sent her to a home for unwed mothers and made her give the baby up for adoption.

Barb was lucky enough to be raised by an older, caring couple that could probably give her a better life than Mom could at the time. What she left out was that it was an ‘arranged’ adoption. No more details until I have her permission to share, but that isn’t the only untruth my mother told, so I half expected what Frank was revealing to us.

I’m sure many more questions will be asked and answered in the process of getting to know her, yet I am excited! It’s so cool that only a few short miles separate us.


Other than meeting Barb and Frank, we also went sightseeing a little and we got to see Juno Beach. Unfortunately for me, walking is so painful that I need Dave’s help, but while we were there, we got a few pics. We had the beach to ourselves…again! Remember our journey to Edisto?
The wind at Juno Beach made it a little cool, even though it was sunny. And like Destin, the beach is not flat like Texas beaches, you have to go down a bit of a slope to get to the water. But how pretty the water was!!

Then we went to Walmart to get groceries and a prescription I needed, so I used the basket to support me as I hobbled around. It gives you some appreciation of good health and awareness of those who are disabled, I tell you!

Frank told us we are going to see some big money when we go see some things in Palm Beach. Millionaires like Donald Trump and Tiger Woods live here and he said expensive cars and boats are the norm. More exploring is in our future!

I put a map of where we are in proximity to Palm Beach.

We are the blue dot. Jupiter.

16 responses to “A Positive Start”

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  1. I do hope the MRI shows a problem that can be solved easily. What a blessing to have a sister in your life now..

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    1. Yes ma’am! I am! And thank you, I do too!

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    1. Thank you Anne! I can’t wait to see them again tonight. I think we are going to go see a Christmas boat parade and then come back to the bus and hang out a little. I will tell them to bring the Off! We found out the hard way last night that when the sun goes down, look out! The skeeters will make a meal out of you!!

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      1. That’s no way to lose weight, being eaten by skeeters.

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      2. No ma’am! We will be protected now that we have some Off!

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      3. OFF! to a good start!!

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      4. Yes!
        I hope you all are doing well and staying warm and cozy! I think of you guys every day and I so miss our walks! I feel a bit better today after a VERY relaxing sleep, I think I might even be walking a little bit better. ☺️

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      5. That’s great news that you might be walking a bit better. Lise and I made it to the creek only once. We had time constraints, and her hip acted up a bit. She has the date for the hip replacement now — December 20.

        We might get a few little snow flurries tonight. Real snow, if there is any, will be at higher elevations.

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      6. Ohh, brrrr!
        Good! I’m glad she will finally get some relief! Tell her I’ll be praying!

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  2. So happy that you and Dave made it to Jupiter and yes the water there looks amazing! So glad that you and your sister get along perfectly and not her husband seems to fit in greatly! Now that the 2 of you have a lot of time to make up for. So when was the 1st time that you knew of her? I am so sorry about all of your pain, and I pray that the prescription that you got helps with that. I pray in general! You are pushing through like a champ! I looked up to that!

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    1. Thanks, Stephanie!
      The shot and steroids help a little with the pain, but walking is difficult. Once I get my MRI, they will see if my hip is out or whatever the problem is, and I can get it fixed, but until then, I just have to keep stretching and stay a bit active. If I’m wrong to walk, and it makes it worse, I’ll tell ‘em that’s what the doctor thought I should do. It would be helpful if I could find Dad’s cane, I was sure I brought it with me! That would keep me straight when walking, instead of looking like I’m 90, lol. I’ll keep looking. ☺️

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  3. Love your new header picture. It is awesome. I am sorry to read that you are in so much pain. Sending big warm Jay hugs your way. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much!! 😊

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  4. Sure does sound lie it’s off to a great start!

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